Here are some post-coital tips on what to do from
AskMen.com.
And it does not include lighting up a cigarette!
After you reach that incredible orgasm you've spent those last 20 minutes trying to attain, it's only natural that you'd like nothing more than to take a nap and wake up to a snack prepared by the woman whom you aimed to please just a few moments ago.
But sometimes, in order to ensure that she feels secure and comfortable with you, falling asleep is just not acceptable. So rather than just turn over and start snoring, here are some things you should consider doing instead.
wake up, buddy
Now we all know that there's a biological reason behind why you feel compelled to take a nap after making love. Upon orgasm, humans release the hormone oxytocin, which normally makes us sleepy.
But behold, there is a way around this: Because we tend to hold our breath when an approaching orgasm starts creeping in, we feel exhausted when it finally kicks down the front door.
So instead of holding your breath, try making a conscious effort to inhale and exhale deeply. This will not only enhance your orgasm, it will also help you stay awake, at least for a little while.
If you forget to breathe (hey, I don't blame you), then after a few minutes of rest, get up and take a cool shower or sit up rather than remain lying down.
all the fun stuff
Now it's time to make sure that she feels like she means the world to you. Some of these suggestions allow you to be somewhat lazy while others might require that you get up and get a move on.
Take things one step at a time, and depending on how explosive your orgasm(s) was, choose whatever you're capable of executing.
Keep touching her
You needn't make a grandiose gesture after the deed all the time, but because some women are extremely vulnerable after making love, letting her know that you still adore her as much as you did before you got inside is important. Even if you're lying there watching TV or talking about how the cracks in the ceiling look like they're getting bigger, always keep touching her. Place your hand on her thigh and rub it gently or play with her hair. You don't have to be sexual; affection and attention will not go unnoticed by her.
Break out the rubber duckie
After you've both spent a few minutes lavishing in the bliss that was your orgasm and then cleaned yourselves off, fill the bath with steamy water and bubbles galore (please ensure that the tub is clean to start off). Let her lie in between your legs in the water and enjoy each other's time. Soap her down, rub her body and massage her temples. There's no denying that she'll love every minute of this experience.
Make dinner or a snack together
I don't think there's a man in this world who isn't starving after sex, but rather than turn over on your side for a nap before blurting, "Jane, make man steak, now," suggest that the two of you make dinner together. You can chop the vegetables while she prepares the steaks, or you can create some freaky concoction that you would never normally eat like peanut butter covered popcorn. The point here is to continue to spend time together even after the "climax" has passed.
Do it again
If you're up for it, as is she, start the whole foreplay process over again. Take a few minutes to recuperate and do it all over from scratch. Start kissing her lips, licking her breasts and feeling her body all over. You have to build up her excitement for a repeat performance. And when you've revved her up, you can finally penetrate all over again.
Take a nap together
If she's one of those women who has multiple, explosive, hair-pulling orgasms during sex, and is an active participant in the event, then chances are she might be just as exhausted as you are once the deed is done. So say something like, "Hey why don't we take a power nap together, then take a bath, make dinner, and do this all over again?" And don't forget to keep your arms around her to let her know that she's the powerful force that put you into a sleepy stupor.
appreciation post-orgasm
Orgasm is great, awesome even, but you have to keep in mind that someone was there with you while you were reaching that point, and whether or not you're ecstatic about their presence post-sex, they're still there (at least this time). So take the time to acknowledge her existence and treat her with appreciation.
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