Friday, June 25, 2010

How to... Flirt with Women

by Scott Patterson

It's a simple reality that most guys don't know how to flirt with women. While they think having a conversation with a woman is flirting, they're far from the truth.

What a lot of men don't know is how flirting involves a different level of communication from the standard conversation. In addition to talking to a woman, you have to demonstrate sexuality and physical attraction. If you can show her an attractive personality, then you'll be on your way to creating instant rapport. And that's where flirting comes in!

Now if you're not sure how to flirt with women, then pay close attention. In this article, you'll learn about 5 easy ways you can flirt with a woman.

1 - Understand flirting

As I said before, many guys have a misconception about the nature of flirting. Flirting is simply about creating sexual tension with a woman. The goal is to joke around with a woman and play fight with her.

Now if you want to create instant attraction, you should start flirting the moment you meet a woman. That way, you'll create positive sexual tension with her.

2 - Be cocky & funny

A great way to flirt with a woman is to use the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is to cultivate a higher status of personality, which will make women work hard for your attention.

In order to be cocky/funny, you should tease her and focus on getting her to laugh. Just remember that cocky/funny is about having a balance of a confident personality with saying funny things. It's not about acting like a clown or being too arrogant.

3 - Bring sexual tension into the conversation

When you're flirting with a woman, you want her to think of you in a sexual way. That's why it's important to bring up sex into the conversation.

Now when I'm talking about sex, I don't mean you should tell her that you want to have sex with her. Instead you should mention different stories about your friends and some of their funny, yet sexual stories.

Also a great technique is to joke that you're going to marry her. Then go back and forth about what you'll do when you're married. Then when she does something wrong, tell her that "it's over" and you're getting a divorce. Just remember to have fun and joke around with your interaction.

4 - Touch her

Establishing physical contact is a great way to flirt with a woman. If you can break the touch barrier you'll take that first step towards creating physical chemistry.

To touch her, concentrate on the conversation and see if you can detect certain moments when a woman is giving you positive vibes. Then touch her when you want to make a point.

5 - Talk about future adventures

Women want excitement in their lives. That's why it's important to talk about how you're an exciting guy. Now you shouldn't start bragging about how you're a fun guy. Instead you should steer the conversation towards how you bring her on adventures with you.

When you use the "future adventures" technique, you talk and joke about all the fun stuff that you do for her. Just remember to keep it fun and lighthearted. By doing it this way, you're projecting an interesting lifestyle without being too lower status.

Knowing how to flirt with women is a skill that all guys should learn. If you can create a flirting atmosphere immediately, then you'll be on your way to creating instant attraction. Simply follow the 5 tips discussed in this article, and you'll be on your way to winning over every woman you meet.

1 comment:

nesta said...

6 - talk sexy
7 - add a little mystery

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